border sensitivity

[Ray Andrews]

On 15/11/12 08:54 AM, Olivier Fourdan wrote:
> The width of the the windows borders is controlled by the xfwm4 theme
> (ie window manager ther), just choose the right theme which is right
> for you...
>
> see https://bugzilla.xfce.org/show_bug.cgi?id=9490
>
I read that bugzilla, he has the same complaint. The problem with 
changing themes is that you might fix one thing but break some other.  
Myself I wish I could just somehow edit the theme if I knew how.  The 
options available in Settings > Window Manager and Window Manager Tweeks 
don't cover it.  How can I find/edit my existing theme?  As I understand 
it, these themes are inherited by xfce, not created by xfce, so one 
could say it is not xfce's problem, still, I'd like to know how.