Looking for nice display manager

[W. Borgert]

Hi,

I'm looking for a nice display manager for XFCE4.  My expectations are:

* good looking :-)  (GTK+ 2 preferred)
* small (not hundreds of dependencies on GNOME, KDE, whatever)
* remote capable (XDMCP support)
* "system menu" (reboot/shutdown)

Tried so far:

xdm - works, but is ugly, IMHO
wdm - works, but problems with "system menu", not sure about XDMCP
gdm - best so far, but much too many dependencies on GNOME

My preference would be gdm minus GNOME, but maybe other XFCE4 users
have better ideas?

Cheers, WB